| Ever since I was a little girl, I have listened to stories | | | | was decorated with whatever was in the house. |
| my father told about the Great Depression. Admittedly, | | | | Christmas morning brought other surprises. Each child |
| I only half listened because I had trouble believing the | | | | was given one of their own stockings that contained a |
| stories of trudging through 5 miles of snow to school | | | | new nickel, an orange (which was very hard to find) |
| every day. Surely, he must be exaggerating. Like any | | | | and their old shoes that Grandpa had resoled from |
| typical teenager, I dismissed him as a reminiscent | | | | scrap leather he found. Ponder the scene. Simple, |
| parent who was living in the past. | | | | meager offerings to these children, who were |
| Now my father is an old man and I am a middle aged | | | | overjoyed by them. |
| woman. His memory is fading, and I deeply regret that I | | | | Each child cherished that orange, savoring its' juices, |
| did not listen more attentively as he told the stories of | | | | and took a long time to eat it. The children didn't |
| his life. One, in particular, stands out. | | | | demand new shoes, but were very happy to have |
| During the Depression, "there wasn't much of anything | | | | new soles to make them last "a little longer." And, the |
| for anyone," Dad always said. That included basic | | | | new nickel was rarely spent -- it was too pretty to |
| things like food. He and his brothers used to follow the | | | | blow it on anything. It was a time to be utilitarian and |
| vegetable carts on the street and pick up veggies that | | | | resourceful. |
| had fallen off the carts during transit. Grandma would | | | | Today, we look at how far we have come and how |
| direct them to go to the butcher at the end of the day, | | | | much we have changed. While we are fortunate to |
| only asking for the spare bones, so she could make | | | | have so much and not be in a Depression, we really |
| soup from them. She would add carrots, potatoes, and | | | | have no idea where our economy will take us. Anger, |
| onions, because they were cheap to buy. As a | | | | frustration, and fear prevail among us, just as it was |
| European immigrant from the early 1920s, she raised a | | | | then. |
| family of 6 on soup, veggies, and bread, with an | | | | What makes our parents' generation different from |
| occasional fish they caught from the local river. | | | | ours? They simply found a way, out of necessity, to |
| Dad remembers Christmas as a particularly difficult | | | | make it work. They put food on the table and kept the |
| time, since there was no money for gifts. Grandpa lost | | | | family together. Their thoughts would never be on flat |
| his ice business during the Crash of '29, and with it, all | | | | screen TVs, new cars, and Blackberries or Wii |
| his savings that he worked so hard to earn. Dad | | | | systems, even if they had them back then. They |
| recalls how he and his siblings would pester Grandpa | | | | simply did without. And they survived to tell us about it. |
| for a Christmas tree. Grandpa would go out late on | | | | So when you are opening your gifts this holiday |
| Christmas eve in the freezing cold, when all the good | | | | season, imagine an old tattered stocking, filled with a |
| trees were gone and prices were slashed to almost | | | | nickel, an orange, and newly-soled shoes. A simple gift |
| nothing. A pathetically skinny tree, missing most of its | | | | from the heart, given with love, is most treasured and |
| needles, would come through the door with Grandpa. | | | | valuable, no matter the economic setting of the holiday. |
| The kids didn't mind; the tree was beautiful to them. It | | | | Simplicity is a beautiful thing! |