| You're starting to have doubts about your boyfriend or | | | | What you need to do is get him interested in the |
| husband. Maybe you've noticed him becoming more | | | | relationship again. You want to reach that point where |
| and more distant. Or maybe the relationship has | | | | he is involved in the relationship enough so you two |
| already ended. The pain of losing someone you love is | | | | can really communicate about the deeper problems |
| unbearable at times. How many more sleepless nights | | | | that need healing. |
| can you take? If you're at that point where you're | | | | But how do you do that if he's already so |
| looking for a 'Does he really love me quiz' then what | | | | uninterested? |
| you really need is some solid advice... and perhaps a | | | | To get him interested again, the first thing you must do |
| proven strategy for winning him back. Here are some | | | | is stop all behavior that comes across as needy or |
| signs that you may be losing him... and powerful tips for | | | | desperate. Don't pressure him to open up or argue |
| winning him back. | | | | about the relationship. This only pushes him farther |
| Warning Signs | | | | away. It's human nature to pull away when pushed. |
| Arguments. Are your fights usually about really trivial | | | | Right now is not the time to put pressure on him. |
| things? If he is always picking on you for the slightest | | | | Instead, do the opposite. Start doing things that are just |
| thing, this is usually a sign that he is resentful about | | | | for you... examples could be spending time with your |
| much deeper issues. | | | | friends and family, starting a new hobby, going to the |
| Kissing. Kissing doesn't have to be like it was at the | | | | gym, etc. Just make sure it's nothing that is destructive |
| beginning of the relationship. But little to no kissing is a | | | | to the relationship. |
| sign of emotional detachment. Not good. | | | | Develop an attitude of detachment. This doesn't mean |
| Going out. Is he finding excuses to be away from you | | | | you become cold or uncaring. You're simply showing |
| more and more? Too many late nights out with the | | | | that you are a strong and independent woman... and |
| boys may be a sign that he is restless and bored... and | | | | that you can be ok without him. |
| wants his freedom | | | | By giving him plenty of space and not pressuring him, |
| Special times. Are you two rarely spending any quality | | | | you show that you are no longer "chasing" him. This |
| time with each other? If he is not making any effort to | | | | allows him to start coming back to you on his own. |
| make spending quality time with you a priority, this may | | | | Follow this strategy correctly and you have a strong |
| be a sign that he is losing interest and taking you for | | | | chance of saving your relationship. There's no need for |
| granted. | | | | a 'Does he really love me quiz.' The idea is to work |
| What can you do? | | | | with a man's nature... not against it. |
| If any of the above behaviors are consistent then this | | | | Now instead of seeing you as someone who is |
| may be a turning point for the two of you. You must | | | | constantly pressuring and nagging him, you are now an |
| understand exactly what to do and say... and avoid the | | | | independent and strong woman who is no longer |
| common mistakes almost everyone makes when | | | | throwing themselves at him. Maybe you've even |
| trying to save a relationship | | | | become a bit unobtainable yourself. Most guys find this |
| First, honestly ask yourself if this relationship is really | | | | very attractive. Now you two are equals and you can |
| worth saving. If you answered yes, then it will probably | | | | start communicating about the real issues in your |
| be up to you to initiate some changes. | | | | relationship that need attention. |