| Cheating has plagued love lives for generations. | | | | also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet. |
| Sometimes, one never finds out about an affair a | | | | Of course, there are countless other signs of a new |
| girlfriend has had. However, there are certain signs | | | | lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and |
| which might give one a clue as to whether (and | | | | car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a |
| exactly to what limit) the girlfriend is cheating. | | | | chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in |
| The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship | | | | overtime at her job without the accompanying |
| is her general disinterest in anything that the two | | | | increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice |
| enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this | | | | a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, |
| disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches | | | | friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, |
| a movie together, and afterwards she can't remember | | | | beware: she might be cheating. |
| anything about the movie, then she might be deeply | | | | Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well |
| distracted by something. This disinterest then might | | | | organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously |
| graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of | | | | maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl's daily |
| plans. | | | | life: she has to find time for the accomplice between |
| Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of | | | | family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a |
| guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is | | | | big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, |
| avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is | | | | most calculating people can actually keep such a |
| being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is | | | | secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she |
| therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party | | | | is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere |
| - either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that | | | | and maybe blurt it out to you herself. |
| ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can | | | | |