| If your boyfriend is a player you may think there's | | | | ways. When you point her out, she becomes less |
| nothing you can do to get him to commit to only you. | | | | interesting to him. Part of the fun of flirting while with |
| You may be wrong about that. Granted some men | | | | you is that he thinks you're oblivious to it. The other |
| just aren't interested in a one-on-one union but many | | | | benefit of complimenting her is that it makes you look |
| are. One of the reasons your boyfriend may still talk to, | | | | incredibly confident. |
| date and enjoy time with other women is because | | | | You also need to play a little harder to get with him. |
| you are turning a blind eye. If your boyfriend's behavior | | | | Many women overcompensate when they are with |
| is hurting you or is causing you to question whether or | | | | non-committal men by constantly being available to |
| not you need him in your life, there are things you can | | | | them. If your boyfriend is a player you need to engage |
| do right now that will make him take you and the | | | | in a little "monkey see, monkey do" behavior. This |
| relationship more seriously. | | | | doesn't mean that you should be out with a different |
| When your boyfriend is a player and you are aware | | | | man every night but you do need to give off the illusion |
| of it, how you handle yourself tells him a lot about your | | | | that you've got other options. Don't pick up each time |
| own self esteem. If you are out with your boyfriend | | | | your boyfriend calls and disappear for a few hours at |
| and you see him making eye contact with other | | | | a time every now and again. Once your boyfriend |
| attractive women there's one thing you need to be | | | | realizes you aren't sitting there waiting for him to throw |
| doing at that instant. Point her out to him. Say | | | | you a bit of attention he's going to get busy trying to |
| something nice about her. Some good examples are | | | | impress you all over again. The old adage about giving |
| "wow, look at how pretty that woman over there is" | | | | someone a bit of their own medicine works incredibly |
| or "I just love the color of her dress." If you do this you | | | | well in this case. |
| instantly diffuse the situation in a couple of different | | | | |